Ponder ponder..

Assalamualaikum all..

Salam Ramadhan to readers.. (: Sorry I havent been posting much.Im handing in my dissertation in less than two weeks. =S freaking nervous..

I just want to share what I learned from my kasihh..He always say things that made me think and interpret.

You know how you get jealous with your partner's ex-es or talk about how your past relationships don't work. You will tend to relay all the bad traits that the exes possess..your thoughts will mostly be focused on bad memories and to an extent..hatred for the person.

Let me tell you this, you were once in love with the person. your partner were once in love with the person. And the longer the duration the relationship went, the more reason to believe that you actually once clicked with the person well.

What I am trying to say here is, be fair.you or your partner may have differences with the exes that leads to the eventual breakup,but exes definitely got your/partner's attention,they definitely made you happy.. if not,you wouldn't be with them. That or you/partner had a poor judgement on your own happiness? 3 months of poor judgement? 6? a year? got engaged??? Was your partner wrong about you too then? =S

There are reasons why exes are in the past,but if the topic of 'why did you break up?' comes up, and if you HAVE to talk about it..then think too about why the person make you smile..

They're not bad people..

I used to hate all my boyfriends exes..but now I know it's just pure insecurity..and yes girls do feel that alot..but don't let it get to you..you're with him now ryt?you're all that matters to him.you're the one he wants.unless he secretly still in love w his ex then...______(since it's the holy month, im not going to finish the sentence)

I hope everyone's doing good..(: Fasting is soooooo lama here in the UK..But at least you will refrain urself from doing bad for longer ryt? 

Hope everyone's going to have a blessed Ramadhan insyaAllah.. 

Razan23